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665	Mere Shadi ko 1.5 Saal ho gya hai magar mere ghar main koi aulad payda (Birth of Children) nahi hua hai jis ki waja se mujhey aur meri bevi (wife) ko kafi pareshani hai aksar log hum dono ka mazak uratein hain ke tum log kuch bhi nahi kar sakte khash kar meri bevi ko mere ghar walon ka samna kartei hue kafi sharmindagi mehsoos hoti hai jab ke hum dono normal life guzar rahein hain aur ek dosre se mukamal motmaeem (Satisfied) hain, Please koi behter advise kar dein jis se hum dono ki problem solve ho jay, ya koi wajefa ya koi aur tareka jis se Allah hum dono ki dil ki khuwahish pori kar de. Please resolve my problem, Allah aap ko is ki zaja e khair de Aamin. Interpretation: I have been married for 18 months now but have not been blessed with a child. This is causing me and my wife great tension as people make fun of us and make remarks such as ‘You two cannot do nothing’ (insinuating that we cannot have children). Our circumstances cause my wife to be disappointed in front of my parents, although me and my wife are content with each other. Could you please offer us advice regarding our issue and help us?
	Please refer to question 469, as stated there, make Istighfar in abundance. It is better to do saber and keep strong. We would also strongly advise you to consult a doctor as well; due to the fact that medical advances help in various ways for natural conception. Also be aware that first conception can take time, so 2 to 3 years is not abnormal for a healthy couple. If you live locally then feel free to see me in person and I may be able to advise you further Inshallah.
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